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The Ritual | Lavender Tallow Self-Care Gift Set

A little lavender, a complete self-care ritual. The Ritual is Lady May Tallow's five-piece lavender gift set: warm candlelight, rich moisture, a fresh cleanse and a minty finish, with matches ready for the candle.

What's Inside & Why You'll Love It

  • 9 oz Lavender Whipped Tallow: Whipped grass-fed beef tallow with a gentle lavender aroma, made for everyday face, body and hand moisture.
  • Lavender Mint Soap Bar: A tallow soap bar that pairs lavender with refreshing mint for a rich, gentle everyday lather.
  • Grasshopper (Mint) Tallow Lip Balm: Tallow and beeswax lip balm with a cool mint finish for everyday lip moisture.
  • 16 oz Lavender Tallow & Beeswax Candle: Hand-poured with beef tallow and pure beeswax, no paraffin, for calming lavender candlelight at home.
  • Lady May Tallow Safety Matches: 4" safety matches in a glass jar with a cork lid and our Lady May Tallow label. The longer length makes it easy to reach the wick, and the jar looks good left out beside the candle.

How to Enjoy It

Light. Cleanse. Moisturize. Finish. Light the Lavender candle with the included matches, lather the soap with water and rinse, warm a little whipped tallow between clean hands and massage it into skin, then finish with mint lip balm.

Use & Care

For external use only. Refer to each individual product label for ingredients and directions. Patch test skincare before first use and discontinue if irritation occurs. Avoid direct eye contact. Store skincare away from heat and direct sunlight; temperature changes may affect whipped texture.

Remove the candle from all gift packaging before lighting. Burn on a heat-resistant surface, within sight, away from children, pets and anything flammable, and follow the candle label. Strike one match at a time and keep matches out of reach of children.

Handcrafted in small batches in Ocean Springs, Mississippi, from the same tallow tradition that started in our family restaurant kitchen.

Unique Features & Benefits
  • Sustainable Farming: We partner with farms that prioritize animal welfare and environmental stewardship, promoting a healthier planet.
  • Small Batch Production: Each batch is carefully monitored to maintain consistency and exceptional quality.
  • Wet Rendered: This traditional method preserves the tallow's natural nutrients and flavor, making it a superior choice for various applications.
OUR PROMISE

We want our customers happy! Our promise is to provide you with the best tallow products or your money back!

The Ritual lavender gift set in an open kraft box: 9 oz Lavender Whipped Tallow, Lavender Mint soap, Grasshopper mint lip balm, Lavender candle and a jar of Lady May Tallow Safety Matches
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Lavender Whipped Tallow jar on a soft backdrop with the text Soft skin. Simple ritual.
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ALWAYS 100% Natural Ingredients

Guarantees

  • Thoughtfully Sourced Tallow

    We use high-quality tallow from U.S.-raised cattle to create every Lady May Tallow product.

  • Natural Oils & Ingredients

    Our essential oils, seed oils, and additional ingredents are always natural and safe for your skin.

  • Money Back Guarantee

    We pride ourselves in delivering premium tallow products. If you don't love your product, message us and we will make it right!

  • Fast Shipping

    Get your products fast! Our ship times are 1-2 business days after your order is placed.

Tallow FAQs

What is tallow?

Tallow has been used for centuries in skincare. With bioavailable vitamins A, B12, D, E, K, and various fatty acids, tallow helps soften, moisturize, and revitalize the skin.

Do your products have a "beefy" scent?

We get this question all the time and while it is very valid, the answer is no!

We use a wet-rendering process for all of our tallow products. This completely purifies the tallow, leaving it odorless, while maintaining the key nutrients and benefits for your skin!

How much tallow should I use?

A little goes a long way with our tallow products. Start by using the size of a penny and see if you need more! Tallow will soak into your skin and leave your skin barrier deeply moisturized.

How should I store my tallow products?

Store your moisturizer away from light and drastic temperature changes.

To maintain its original texture, store your moisturizer in a typical temperature-controlled environment (68-74 degrees). Extreme temperatures can cause the tallow to harden in cold conditions or melt in warm conditions. If this occurs, there's no need to worry; the moisturizer is still usable, but know the texture may change.

Can I use tallow if I have oily skin?

Yes! When the skin is excessively cleansed and stripped of its natural oils, it tends to overproduce oil. Using a high-quality moisturizer, like whipped tallow, can help maintain skin's moisture balance and prevent excess oil production.

Can I use tallow if I have acne-prone skin?

Yes! The antimicrobial, anti-inflammatory, and skin-repairing qualities of tallow can greatly benefit acne-prone skin.

What are the uses for tallow skincare?

There are many uses for your tallow skincare products.

Our products can be used for moisturizing the skin (face & body), diaper rashes, and eczema/other skin irritations.

Is this product organic?

Our tallow boasts a clean label with no artificial ingredients. However, it is not certified organic.

What part of the cow does the fat come from? Is it suet?

The fat we use primarily comes from the kidney area and loins of the cow. This specific type of fat is known as suet, prized for its purity and quality. Our "nose-to-tail sustainable farms" ensure that no fat goes to waste, utilizing all parts of the animal for their unique benefits for a premium blend of beef tallow.

Are the farms sustainable?

Yes, the farms we partner with focus on ethical practices that respect both the land and the animals. Every batch of our tallow carries the promise of sustainability and a nod to generations past.

Does this product need to be refrigerated?

No, the product is shelf-stable at room temperature. However, you can refrigerate or freeze it if you wish to extend the shelf life. Refrigeration will make the product harder, but many bakers prefer this consistency for creating flakier crusts.

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Diana

Awesome quality very great !!!

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KB

I discovered Lady May at my boutique massage place and I’ve been addicted to their products ever since! From cooking to skin care to candles…I’m in looove!! I even have my husband loving the whipped tallow on his face. I love USA made and when it’s quality, you love it even more! Thank you Lady May for what you do!!

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Chishimba

I love this product and company. I've ordered from their website multiple times and will continue to do so.

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Billi-Jo

LOVE every product that I have tried thus far. My son, who is 29, has also fallen hard for this tallow:-) as has significant other. Just an AMAZING high quality product and SUPERB Customer Service. Such a pleasure to do business with. Thank you The Lady May! I appreciate you.

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Gina

All items were amazing and great quality! Everything smelled and feels so natural! Thank you so much for packing with care. Can’t wait to purchase again! ♥️

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Luke

all the products work wonderfully and the candle and xl matches are such a treat

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butterflyprincess26

Absolutely amazing!
I love everything!
I will definitely be a returning customer.
Thank you.

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StrongGirls

I ordered the large set, when I really only wanted to try the plain whipped tallow and I’m so very glad I did because I’ve loved every product I’ve tried so far! The coffee infused eye cream is INCREDIBLE. The vanilla tallow is so relaxing. It’s all so incredibly nourishing and smooth.

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Nadine

Great gift set! A little bummed about the soap. I thought it was coming with soap similar to the bars pictured in listing. The soap I received is great. Ive purchased it before. I just thought the soaps that came with this set were exclusive not sold in shop. Also, I was sent an Island Hibiscus candle instead of Lavender. Messaged seller, will update review later.

UPDATE 8/18
Seller responded to message and a Lavender candle is being shipped out.

❤️ ALL of these products! The eye cream is excellent. I use it around my eyes & on my neck.
The candles burn well, slow, clean & scent fills the room. I'll be a repeat customer for life!

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cindy

Wonderful product. It's also a great gift. 🎁

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careena33

This was purchased as a gift - The receiver was so happy 💖

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Anne Everett

The candle and tallow cream are lovely!

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Bobbie

This is a gift for a friend that has had sudden medical problems then a fall. She's very excited to try this soon.

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Alissa

I sent this to my sister in law for her bday and she said it is the best gift basket she has ever received.

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Ashley

Love the items within this gift set! Ordered one as a gift, and one for me.

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onalindberg

Great set! Candles smell so good, and burn so clean. I love the eye cream, second one I’ve bought. Looking forward to trying the soap and balm. I love everything from this company. Shipping is incredible, everything is so well packaged. Even in the summer they ship with ice packs to protect the product!!!

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Kelli

New favorite candle!! Great quality!

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Kendyl

i have bought several items from this shop, and they have always exceed my expectations!

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Kaci

Second time buying this GS. Amazing.

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Dawn

Poor customer service. I was over charged and am now having to deal with gritty tallow and mediocre hot sauce. Yikes. I really wanted to love this store and their products. Unfortunately as of now I have not gotten any items from this shop that I am satisfied with. I hope that Lady May can rectify this whole debacle. I just ask for quality products and quality customer support.

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Dawn

Leaking product in package and unfortunately poor customer service. My friend raved about Lady May. I bought hundreds of dollars worth of products and am struggling to understand if it was worth it. The texof the tallow is gritty. The hot sauce is mostly vinegar... so definitely not anything special. I was over charged as well. Super sad. I hope this gets fixed. I will totally come back and leave an update on the progress of this unfortunate consumer situation.

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PRIMPALMS

Beautiful presentation & wrapped extremely secure ... Will make a wonderful gift ... Thank you 🙏

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Jennfier

Got this as a gift for my mom, I love this product

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Jessica

Wonderful per usual! They always go above and beyond. Beautiful packaging and will make the perfect Christmas gift!

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Vlad

Great product wife loved it, customer service is great

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Amy

This made a great gift. All I had to do was wrap the box!

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Mary

It was a welcomed gift for someone going through a tough time.

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Laura

I love this shop!!! They shipped my order out so fast! I didn't expect to receive it before Christmas but I did!! I love everything in this gift box. The candle smells so lovely. All the products are of exceptional quality. I'm a customer for life!

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onalindberg

Amazing products! I use them all the time, and gifted some things to my best friend this holiday season. Always love everything from Lady May. Really enjoying the candles now too.

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Tiffany

Bought this for a friend and she loved it!! Best tallow!!

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Cynthia

Well made and wonderful gift. Very happy. It arrived on time and as it was described.

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Ashley

This is one of my favorite LadyMay products. I have ordered this as a gift for myself and for friends and family. Everything included in this gift box is amazing.

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Stephanie Navarro

Love all the products in this gift set! All great quality and smell amazing. Would definitely recommend this!